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Just in case any of us receives threats or otherwise questionable messages
via CEI's private messaging (PM), please contact Mr. Rick Ross, CEO of Cult Education Institute and moderator of this message board.
Mr Ross can be contacted here.
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Send Mr Ross a copy of the offending PM complete
with URL, date and time and username of whoever sent the message.
Sending copies of questionable message board and PM items to the moderator is the only way to keep the CEI message
board a safe and secure place.
You are not being weak in doing this.
You are not 'whingeing'
Do not let someone accuse you of being too sensitive or lacking a sense of humor.
And don't back down if someone accuses you of being abusive by standing up
for yourself.
Dr. Jennifer J Freyd has termed this the DARVO technique.
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If you are wondering why I keep re-posting the same thread,its because I have received threats,via youtube,(no guessing who is complaining,as its not good for their businesses) so here are the links again.
Just in case any of us receives threats or otherwise questionable messages
via CEI's private messaging (PM), please contact Mr. Rick Ross, CEO of Cult Education Institute and moderator of this message board.
Mr Ross can be contacted here.
[forum.culteducation.com]
Send Mr Ross a copy of the offending PM complete
with URL, date and time and username of whoever sent the message.
Sending copies of questionable message board and PM items to the moderator is the only way to keep the CEI message
board a safe and secure place.
You are not being weak in doing this.
You are not 'whingeing'
Do not let someone accuse you of being too sensitive or lacking a sense of humor.
And don't back down if someone accuses you of being abusive by standing up
for yourself.
Dr. Jennifer J Freyd has termed this the DARVO technique.
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Definition of DARVO
DARVO refers to a reaction perpetrators of wrong doing, particularly sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior. DARVO stands for "Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender." The perpetrator or offender may Deny the behavior, Attack the individual doing the confronting, and Reverse the roles of Victim and Offender such that the perpetrator assumes the victim role and turns the true victim -- or the whistle blower -- into an alleged offender. This occurs, for instance, when an actually guilty perpetrator assumes the role of "falsely accused" and attacks the accuser's credibility and blames the accuser of being the perpetrator of a false accusation
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