What is created by the controlling lover, the totalitarian leader?
A garden of instant bliss.
A garden of instant bliss in which slow poison of fear taints every fruit, every blossom, every brook and fountain.
People rave about it. There are enticing videos online. People at your meditation groups, yoga classes talk about it.
What about harm reviews?
They're unfindable online because what you easily find gives only the rave reviews.
A garden of instant bliss tainted by slow onset fear is a poetic way to describe exactly the kind of relationship described by Daniel Shaw, quoted above by happytown. Daniel Shaw learned all this while in the poisoned bliss garden belonging to Gurumayi of Siddha Yoga, successor to Baba Muktananda who created the poisoned bliss bower called SYDA Yoga. Muktananda liked bodyguards and guard dogs. Strange accessories for a bliss specialist but perfect for the authoritarian leader who combines bliss and fear.
What Daniel Shaw has written, quoted above by happytown, is the recipe for
creating the conflicted insecure attachment bonding described by Alexandra Stein and other social psychologists and clinical psychologists.
To supplement Dan Shaw's insights, recall that totalitarian(aka pathological control freak) leaders always, always always inject fear into the equation.
A control freak leader carries fear inside himself or herself. Whatever relationship environment a controlling totalitarian minded person creates, fear will always there.
Fear becomes a secret to be hidden. Chronic inmates of these tainted relationships assauge their doubts by eagerly seeking new recruits and displace, outsource their resentments by punishing scapegoats and blaming dissidents.
Whoever lives in and habituates to that situation will become fear ridden, no matter how great the bliss the first enticed you inside.
You'll feel the bliss but more and more, incorporate fear into yourself the longer you stay in a bower of bliss designed by such a person.
The most dangerous thing is, you forget what relationships are like when untainted by chronic fear.
The conflicted, perversely intense relationships created in environments created by totalist controlling persons seem the only life you have and the only life you can hope to have.
A garden of instant bliss.
A garden of instant bliss in which slow poison of fear taints every fruit, every blossom, every brook and fountain.
People rave about it. There are enticing videos online. People at your meditation groups, yoga classes talk about it.
What about harm reviews?
They're unfindable online because what you easily find gives only the rave reviews.
A garden of instant bliss tainted by slow onset fear is a poetic way to describe exactly the kind of relationship described by Daniel Shaw, quoted above by happytown. Daniel Shaw learned all this while in the poisoned bliss garden belonging to Gurumayi of Siddha Yoga, successor to Baba Muktananda who created the poisoned bliss bower called SYDA Yoga. Muktananda liked bodyguards and guard dogs. Strange accessories for a bliss specialist but perfect for the authoritarian leader who combines bliss and fear.
What Daniel Shaw has written, quoted above by happytown, is the recipe for
creating the conflicted insecure attachment bonding described by Alexandra Stein and other social psychologists and clinical psychologists.
To supplement Dan Shaw's insights, recall that totalitarian(aka pathological control freak) leaders always, always always inject fear into the equation.
A control freak leader carries fear inside himself or herself. Whatever relationship environment a controlling totalitarian minded person creates, fear will always there.
Fear becomes a secret to be hidden. Chronic inmates of these tainted relationships assauge their doubts by eagerly seeking new recruits and displace, outsource their resentments by punishing scapegoats and blaming dissidents.
Whoever lives in and habituates to that situation will become fear ridden, no matter how great the bliss the first enticed you inside.
You'll feel the bliss but more and more, incorporate fear into yourself the longer you stay in a bower of bliss designed by such a person.
The most dangerous thing is, you forget what relationships are like when untainted by chronic fear.
The conflicted, perversely intense relationships created in environments created by totalist controlling persons seem the only life you have and the only life you can hope to have.