Soemetimes a persistent obsession with a person, especially when this abnormality goes on for several years, is a way to escape other difficult situations in one's life, or life itself.
Sometimes therapy works, but only if the obsessed individual has the capacity to be honest, and is willing to admit that they have a problem. It is difficult for a person's sense of dignity, to admit that you cannot stop thinking about someone who wants nothing to do with you.
When therapy is not the answer, there are always medications. Again, many obsessed individuals will not take medications, either because they strongly believe they are not obsessed, or they do realize they have a problem, but their ego is threatened by the idea that they might require psych meds to deal with life.
Lawrence Estavan: You have produced literally hundreds of very detailed "gotcha" kinds of posts, since 2012. At this time it is now 2018. In the past few weeks alone you have relentlessly posted extremely detailed conspiracy theories about me. This is not healthy, mentally, emotionally or spiritually.
I think any objective and reasonable person can see what's going on here. You are unable to stop obsessing on my life and things you imagine that I have done which you feel are wrong and require exposure and justice. But what feeling are you trying to essentially medicate, within yourself, by employing this type of escapism?
Furthermore, this behavior on your part causes me problems. People Google me and find this loony nonsense. People who don't know me well might actually believe some of it. Everyone who knows me well is aware of you and knows that none of this is true.
For both of our sakes, PLEASE get some help. You cannot possibly feel good about yourself, when you are so compelled to post this stuff everyday, or even several times a day.
Sometimes therapy works, but only if the obsessed individual has the capacity to be honest, and is willing to admit that they have a problem. It is difficult for a person's sense of dignity, to admit that you cannot stop thinking about someone who wants nothing to do with you.
When therapy is not the answer, there are always medications. Again, many obsessed individuals will not take medications, either because they strongly believe they are not obsessed, or they do realize they have a problem, but their ego is threatened by the idea that they might require psych meds to deal with life.
Lawrence Estavan: You have produced literally hundreds of very detailed "gotcha" kinds of posts, since 2012. At this time it is now 2018. In the past few weeks alone you have relentlessly posted extremely detailed conspiracy theories about me. This is not healthy, mentally, emotionally or spiritually.
I think any objective and reasonable person can see what's going on here. You are unable to stop obsessing on my life and things you imagine that I have done which you feel are wrong and require exposure and justice. But what feeling are you trying to essentially medicate, within yourself, by employing this type of escapism?
Furthermore, this behavior on your part causes me problems. People Google me and find this loony nonsense. People who don't know me well might actually believe some of it. Everyone who knows me well is aware of you and knows that none of this is true.
For both of our sakes, PLEASE get some help. You cannot possibly feel good about yourself, when you are so compelled to post this stuff everyday, or even several times a day.