if you want to go there,finding faults in someone else I believe this will be never ending story no one is perfect but people sometimes change and realise things, But i can talk from my experience i never had a relationship with don, and I failed somehow to set boundaries, however just because I failed does that mean that Don has not failed too? I remember people being told to take responsibility did you feel don taking responsibility in any of the sessions? there are a lot of healing practices saying for us to take responsibility and the way others behave towards you is about themselves nothing to do with you, I do not believe it, it is true you carrie your own issues so you treat people the way you are treated, but when someone comes across has intrusive and you are already stressed it just adds more stress and takes love, so in a way they contribute for your lack of balance and love, and it can be used as an excuse to treat someone badly and say that is the way they feel you did nothing... for me a balanced interaction is I am sorry I feel stressed as response I am sorry I feel it too that is what I call love an connection!
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