Heartfelt sorrow at your stories, all grist for the Pineapple King's mill unfortunately.
Sorry no PM's, however this may answer some collective questions.
'If you do some studying of how cults gain the trust and loyalty of their members, you will see that the machinations that the psychopath uses to lure you into the relationship are NO DIFFERENT.
Why the "Love Bombing" stage is the most dangerous phase of the Psychopathic bond.'
ability to love.wordpress
But the esoteric women in UM are so lovely, you say.
But the esoteric women in UM are so gentle and supportive, you say.
But the esoteric women in UM are so kind, you say.
But the esoteric women in UM are so helpful and willing to drive out of their way to pick you up and take you to support meetings, you say.
When you are listened to like never before, gently arm stroked and smiled at with unnerving eye contact, don't be deceived. This is a recruitment tactic used by all cults. The Smiling Assassin of Goonellabah is the Master of this technique and has trained his recruiters well. You see the "students' are given a quota, the more 'pranic' souls they recruit by sharing their 'fiery' light, the better the students 'Atma' which in turn improves their Karma for a better life next time around. Simple, 'do you get it?'(!) The pity of this type of pyramid selling is the students don't even get free a Tupperware container for this lifetime!
So look out for the Love Bombing.
As soon as any interest is shown by the recruits,
they may be love bombed by the recruiter or other cult members. This process of feigning friendship and interest in the recruit was originally associated with one of the early youth cults, but soon it was taken up by a number of groups as part of their program for luring people in. Love bombing is a coordinated effort, usually under the direction of leadership, that involves long term members' flooding recruits and newer members with flattery, verbal seduction,affectionate but usually non-sexual touching, and lots of attention to their every remark. Love bombing - or the offer of instant companionship - is a deceptive ploy accounting for many successful recruitment drives.
Margaret Singer Cults in Our Midst.
Beware of esoteric UM women, infusing you with their fiery bullshit. But heaven forbid you question the teachings of the Pineapple King. That's when the knives come out and it's not to eat!
Sorry no PM's, however this may answer some collective questions.
'If you do some studying of how cults gain the trust and loyalty of their members, you will see that the machinations that the psychopath uses to lure you into the relationship are NO DIFFERENT.
Why the "Love Bombing" stage is the most dangerous phase of the Psychopathic bond.'
ability to love.wordpress
But the esoteric women in UM are so lovely, you say.
But the esoteric women in UM are so gentle and supportive, you say.
But the esoteric women in UM are so kind, you say.
But the esoteric women in UM are so helpful and willing to drive out of their way to pick you up and take you to support meetings, you say.
When you are listened to like never before, gently arm stroked and smiled at with unnerving eye contact, don't be deceived. This is a recruitment tactic used by all cults. The Smiling Assassin of Goonellabah is the Master of this technique and has trained his recruiters well. You see the "students' are given a quota, the more 'pranic' souls they recruit by sharing their 'fiery' light, the better the students 'Atma' which in turn improves their Karma for a better life next time around. Simple, 'do you get it?'(!) The pity of this type of pyramid selling is the students don't even get free a Tupperware container for this lifetime!
So look out for the Love Bombing.
As soon as any interest is shown by the recruits,
they may be love bombed by the recruiter or other cult members. This process of feigning friendship and interest in the recruit was originally associated with one of the early youth cults, but soon it was taken up by a number of groups as part of their program for luring people in. Love bombing is a coordinated effort, usually under the direction of leadership, that involves long term members' flooding recruits and newer members with flattery, verbal seduction,affectionate but usually non-sexual touching, and lots of attention to their every remark. Love bombing - or the offer of instant companionship - is a deceptive ploy accounting for many successful recruitment drives.
Margaret Singer Cults in Our Midst.
Beware of esoteric UM women, infusing you with their fiery bullshit. But heaven forbid you question the teachings of the Pineapple King. That's when the knives come out and it's not to eat!